Posts Tagged "kink"

Katie knew that Pete had bought her something big for her birthday but she hadn’t expected… this.

“There, baby, what do you think?” he’d said, smiling slyly. “More interesting than flowers, wouldn’t you say?”

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Nelli, one of my favorite fellow bloggers, wrote a post today asking exactly this question. Because I enjoyed her post so very much, I left a rather lengthy comment and thought I’d share it with you. Below is the comment, but be sure to check out the original post here.

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I was watching a BBC show the other night and somehow the topic of hickeys came up. One man, probably in his forties, said “Yeah, I remember what a big deal hickeys were as a teenager…But adults don’t give hickeys do they? I suppose it would be weird as an adult.“

Considered one of the most controversial topics in sex research today, the prevalence of force in sexual fantasies is both undeniable and unexplained. For a myriad of cultural and societal reasons, research into this topic is scarce and the findings are largely inconclusive. Their are, however, a few prevailing theories as to why people, women in particular, become aroused while thinking of scenarios involving the loss of personal control and/or submission – sometimes to the point of imagining mental and physical violence to themselves (as in rape fantasies).

My husband was as a Pirate for Halloween once. It was some of the best sex we’ve ever had.

One of the main reasons sex is so exciting in the beginning of any relationship is because your partner is a new experience for you. Humans not only enjoy, but seek out new experiences all the time. It’s just part of who we are. And while this adventurous streak leads us to do things like use fire and invent the wheel, it also leads us to stray from our long term and otherwise happy relationships.