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We hear this word thrown around all the time. It typically conjures up images of leather, latex, and thigh-high boots being adoringly worshiped by a chain-clad submissive. But how accurate are these images? What does it really mean to have a fetish, and perhaps more importantly, is having a fetish unhealthy?

Mr. Writer has been at it again…This time dreaming up a steamy voyeuristic fantasy for your reading pleasure. I’m very pleased to bring to you Naughty Ones another installment of Sunday Erotica. So sit back, unzip those cumbersome pants, and indulge your carnal side a little. But remember, this is a fantasy…a very illegal one at that…So please Kids, Don’t Try This At Home!

I had passed by her house probably a hundred times during my evening walks.

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Nelli, one of my favorite fellow bloggers, wrote a post today asking exactly this question. Because I enjoyed her post so very much, I left a rather lengthy comment and thought I’d share it with you. Below is the comment, but be sure to check out the original post here.

Considered one of the most controversial topics in sex research today, the prevalence of force in sexual fantasies is both undeniable and unexplained. For a myriad of cultural and societal reasons, research into this topic is scarce and the findings are largely inconclusive. Their are, however, a few prevailing theories as to why people, women in particular, become aroused while thinking of scenarios involving the loss of personal control and/or submission – sometimes to the point of imagining mental and physical violence to themselves (as in rape fantasies).

If I had to sum up my sexual desires into just one picture, I think this would be it. There’s something about the possessive/tender way he’s holding her, the hungry, almost threatening look in his eyes. She’s given her all to him…and he’s reveling in that power.