Will Your Naughty Gift be a Disaster?

speaksexy @ December 15, 2007 # 9 Comments

Although this vibe or that whip might look like a great play thing to YOU, remember you are buying this gift for your lover’s enjoyment - not necessarily your own.

Don’t buy your husband a g-spot anal stimulator if you know how “touchy” he is about that area of his body - regardless of how much you’d love to open him up to other sexual experiences.

Now is not the time to try to push your partner into trying something they are uncomfortable with…

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Holiday Shopping Foreplay - Start Thinking Sexy!

speaksexy @ November 23, 2007 # No Comment Yet

Like it or not, it’s that time of year again. And since today is traditionally the the biggest shopping day of the year, I thought I’d give you a few ideas to get you in the mood. Think of it as “Holiday Foreplay” - seducing you into pondering the many deliciously tempting goodies the next couple months could bring…I’ve even done some price comparisons for you. How’s that for a head start?

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“Fit to be Tied” - Getting Beyond the Fuzzy Cuffs!

speaksexy @ November 4, 2007 # 12 Comments

Bondage - Arguably my favorite of all the kinky sex games! “Tied, bound, tightly, held down, forced to stay still” - these little words seem to spark my libido every time. And although bondage is often combined with other, often painful, sex games it certainly doesn’t have to be. In fact tons of people enjoy bondage without ever incorporating pain into their sex lives at all.

Unfortunately movies, books, and other widely published media rarely separate out one form of BDSM play from another, and successfully mush everything together into one scary-ass picture of a leather…

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Vibrators 101: A Woman’s Guide to Ultimate Pleasure

speaksexy @ October 25, 2007 # 2 Comments

Whoever said a woman can’t get ecstasy-inducing pleasure without the help of a man clearly never experienced the gentle rhythms of a quality vibrator. Don’t be shy about choosing the perfect vibrator for you – here’s a guide to help you select the right sex toy for you.

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Sexual Humor - “That’s Sooo Immature!”

speaksexy @ October 10, 2007 # 2 Comments

When was the last time you laughed while doing something erotic? A lot of people think laughing will ruin “the mood,” but in reality laughter and playfulness can add a great deal of emotional intimacy to the encounter. It’s important to enjoy your time together, and making a game out of sex can be a wonderful change of pace, especially if sex in your long term relationship has become routine!

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Shopping Online Vs. Adult Bookstores

speaksexy @ October 6, 2007 # No Comment Yet

Have you ever wanted to try a sex toy but were too embarrassed to go into a sex shop? Here are some great reasons why shopping online for adult products is a great and safe alternative!

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Masturbating to your lover’s voice - the high-tech way

speaksexy @ September 27, 2007 # 4 Comments

One of the most exciting parts of having sex is hearing your partner moan, sigh, growl, or talk “dirty” during those few moments of uninhibited abandon. Now wouldn’t it be nice to hear those vibrant and delicious sounds while you were masturbating? By combing a few high-tech gadgets and adding a little creativity, I’ve come up with a way for you to not only hear your lover’s voice - but to feel it!

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Vibrating Your Way to Health - What You Didn’t Know About the History of Vibrators

speaksexy @ September 7, 2007 # 6 Comments

Way back in the late 1800’s the first vibrator was created as a medical device intended to treat and cure hysteria - a “disease” which only affected women and was characterized by: irritability, depression, confusion, heart palpitations, forgetfulness, insomnia, headaches, muscle spasms, ticklishness or weepiness (Lindemann, 2006).
Apparently the founders of modern medicine, all men let’s […]

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Enforcer - Erotic Book Review

speaksexy @ August 22, 2007 # One Comment

Rolling her eyes, she moved over and straddled his lap. “Thank you for the cookies.” She kissed one eyelid. “And the tea.” She kissed the other. “Thank you for being concerned about me.” His lips were beneath hers and felt carnal and fleshy and delicious. She grazed them with her teeth and he opened his […]

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Buying My First Corset

speaksexy @ August 19, 2007 # 6 Comments

(Yeah, Yeah. My face is missing on purpose and the date is wrong since I forgot to reset the camera after taking the battery out…)

I did it. Finally. I splurged.
I bought myself a gorgeous corset as a surprise for my husband. OK so it wasn’t the hard-core “Victorian I’m going to pass out” kind […]

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