What is Sexy?

One of the biggest vanilla dating sites online did a survey recently asking their members what they were looking for and the results surprised a lot of people.  On the top on the list was teeth. Yes, teeth!  Now I’m not sure if they mean that they have teeth, that they take care of their teeth, or that they have a great smile… but whatever it is, I’m sure dentists around the world are rejoicing at the news.

 

No, despite the title you won’t hear the audio track for a Vivid Special.  (Not this time at least) This post has a little more thought and creativity to it! And after you listen to a few of these you’ll see why. Now let me set it up for you…..

You walk right past them on your way to the bathroom. There they are, hanging from your bedroom vanity or mirror post. Maybe in the upper drawer of your bedside table? It used to be that the only time you saw handcuffs were on criminals. How did this change? When?

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“As we started dancing around the floor, I reached my hand up under her hair and grabbed a hand full at the back of her neck and held it tightly. She looked up at me, and as I held tight onto that grip of her hair, pulling her head back just the slightest, she closed her eyes, smiled, made a soft noise, and in that moment the question was asked and answered; “Are you? Yes, and yes I am.” ~Excerpt taken from Can You Spot a Dominant or submissive?~

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As most of us know, there are a lot of heterosexual men out there who enjoy watching lesbian porn.

Whatever their reasons, many men get turned on when they see two beautiful women kiss, fondle, and dildo each other to orgasmic bliss.

Some men even find lesbian porn more exciting than “regular” straight porn!

But what about women? Do they feel the same way about gay male porn?

Do they get all hot and bothered watching two men caress, suck, and f*** each other? And if they do, what, if anything, does it mean?

The Question:

I’m starting to wonder if something is wrong with me. Lately I’ve noticed that I’m extremely turned on by gay sex. I don’t no how to label myself, (Bi, etc…) because I don’t feel any attraction to females. Is it normal for women to be turned on by watching gay men in the act?

~ Brandy, North Carolina, USA ~

Am I Gay?

First of all, let’s clear up the unnecessary confusion you are experiencing regarding your sexual orientation – Being turned on by gay male porn does not make you gay, bisexual, or a lesbian.

Unless you, as a woman, are sexually attracted to other women, you are neither homosexual nor bisexual.

You can still consider yourself completely heterosexual regardless of your preference for gay porn.

Think of it this way, no one believes that men who watch lesbian porn are homosexual. As a matter of fact, when heterosexual men admit to not liking lesbian porn, they are often made fun of because they are “supposed” to like it as heterosexual men!

Why would it be any different for a straight women who likes to watch gay men?

Is Something Wrong With Me?

No!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Instead of worrying about “why” you like gay porn or what the deeper meanings and implications are, just go with it.

We all have odd likes, dislikes, and personality quirks. It’s what makes us so interesting. Your enjoyment of gay porn certainly isn’t hurting anyone, so don’t worry about it.

Be happy you’ve discovered something new about yourself that brings you pleasure.

Do Most Women Like Gay Porn?

Well, honestly I don’t know the answer to that question.

Although men’s interest in lesbian porn is common cultural knowledge (think of all the jokes and pictures associated with it), we don’t hear very much about women who like gay porn.

I’m sure this has a lot to do with the fact that traditionally women have not been the main consumers of porn since most people believed, and many still do believe, that women don’t like porn as much as men. Of course, this isn’t true and more and more adult companies are realizing that their is a big and growing market for women-oriented porn.

Having said that, there’s not much research, scientific or otherwise, that gives any definitive numbers on the percentage of women who get turned on by watching two male lovers.

However, if you look a little deeper into a lot of written erotica that is meant for women, there are a lot of male-on-male scenes…

So even though I can’t tell you if most women get turned on by gay porn, I have a feeling there are many women, just like you, who certainly do get aroused by watching “gay men in the act“!

It Makes Sense for Straight Women to Like It

As a straight woman, you love men. You adore men. You want to have sex with men. Right?

Then it makes perfect sense that watching not one, but two men engaged in sexual activity would be very exciting to you.

Sure, this isn’t the case for all straight women, but it is a very understandable turn on.

Just ask those lesbian lovin’ heterosexual men – the more women, the better!

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How Much Would You Pay for Used Panties, Stockings, or Lingerie?

Believe it or not, selling women’s pre-worn, unlaundered underwear is a big and growing business here on the internet.

Women who are willing to indulge this rather unusual “fetish” are setting up personal websites, naming their own prices, and mailing their dirty panties to anyone who wants them.

Although this may be the first time you’re hearing about “panty fetishism”, it’s been around for quite a while – probably for as long as women have worn undergarments.

What Exactly is Panty Fetishism?

There seems to be two main parts to this fetish: the sexualization of women’s underwear itself and the sexual enjoyment derived from the used underwear.

The first part refers to the fact that panty-lovers would rather see women in their panties than out of them. The panty, or other intimate female garment, is a fetish object that is the source of sexual arousal. Without the panty, the woman loses her sexual appeal, either partly or completely.

The second part refers to the enjoyment people, mostly men, derive from smelling, licking, fondling, and/or masturbating with the dirty panties.

But before you write this off as a truly “weird” and incomprehensible fetish, think about this:

“Panties are the item closest to a woman’s body. They hold all the scent that makes a woman a woman. Every woman has her favorite pair. Every day they are discarded, dirty, into the hamper. They are seldom handled by anyone other than the woman who owns them. And panties are one of the most intimate items a woman owns. To have a woman’s panties is like having a little piece of her.” ~eBay Panty Fetish Guide~

Aawww, put that way it sounds down right romantic!

Of course, not all panty fetishists care about who wore the panties, and there certainly does not have to be an emotional connection between the fetishist and the panty wearer for the fetishist to get sexual pleasure from the underwear.

However some fetishists are very loyal, and only the scent of their beloved will do.

How Much Does a Normal Used Panty Cost?

Like most things, the price of a used panty depends on many factors:

1) How long they’ve been worn…

2) Their fabric and style…

3) If they come with or without pictures of the woman wearing them…

4) Whether or not the woman was sexual (masturbated) while wearing them.

For example, one UK site** varies its panty price between 26 and 36 pounds (roughly $50-$70). The lower range is for panties that were “squirted” on (via female ejaculation at orgasm) but have no accompanying pictures and were not worn prior to the squirting. The higher range is for panties that were worn for 24 hours, have pictures, and were “squirted” on.

I’ve also found U.S. based sites that offer panties for as low as $20 and as much as $500!

Panty Fetishists in Japan

No where is it more widely accepted than in Japan. According to the all-knowing Wikipedia, the business of panty fetishism is widespread. In fact, the market for used panties is established enough to warrant actual legislation.

“Burusera shops in Japan sell used girl panties… The clothes are often accompanied by genuine photos of the girls wearing them. The clients are Japanese men who smell or otherwise experience the panties for sexual stimulation. Vending machines were once used to sell packaged used panties…

…Underage schoolgirls participate in sale of their used panties, either through burusera shops or using mobile phone sites to sell directly to clients.

When laws banning the purchase of used underwear from under-18s were introduced in Tokyo in 2004, it was reported that some underage girls were instead allowing their clients (called kagaseya or sniffers) to sniff their underwear from directly between their legs. Others chose to sell photos of themselves, throwing in the used panties for free.” (Wikipedia)

There are so many disturbing things packed into those few sentences that I’d like to go through them one by one.

First – Used Panty Vending Machines?!

I questioned there existence too, so went searching the internet for further proof.

Unfortunately, I didn’t come up with anything conclusive. Many people believe these vending machines to be an urban legend. Other people who live in or have been to Japan claim that although these machines were banned in 1993, they are still available for people “in the know”.

But if they do exist, I wonder how long it’ll be before these eyebrow-raising machines make their way onto the streets of sexually conservative American towns…

Second – Teen Girl Panties?!

Offering up dirty women’s panties to adult fetishists is one thing, but isn’t there something very pedophilic about selling panties worn by underage girls to adult men for their sexual and masturbatory pleasures?

OK, so it’s certainly not as bad as actual pedophilia since these girls are not being touched or abused, but lusting after their panties isn’t much better.

Third – Pictures of Teen Girls Wearing Their Panties?!

Now we’ve entered real problem territory. Half naked pictures of teen girls being exchanged for money is usually a very big No-No in any part of the developed world.

It seems strange that the law cited above prevents these entrepreneurial young women from selling their panties, but the pictures of them wearing their panties are still being sold? That wasn’t included in the overall ban?

To answer this, I poked around for more information on Japanese porn/sex laws and found that since 2003 Japan has enacted very serious laws regarding sex with minors – including child pornography.

Apparently teen girls are notorious for selling “indecent” pictures of themselves via their cell phones and police are having a very hard time prosecuting everyone involved. I guess it’s less risky to sell your pictures than your undies…

Forth – Sniffing Panties from Between Their Legs?!

Although this might be a fun and sexy thing to do with your own adult lover, sniffing the underwear of underage girls while they are wearing said underwear crosses what ever flimsy line of propriety there might have otherwise been for this fetish.

No matter how “hands off” it might be, this is not a healthy thing to do!

And speaking of health…

What are the Health Risks of Panty Sniffing?

Simply put – Not Many – if you’re just sniffing.

If you’re licking, rubbing, and fondling the dirty duds there’s still very little risk involved.

Most sexually transmitted infections and viruses don’t last very long once outside of the body. Both HIV and herpes viruses can survive little more than a few minutes, so by the time you get around to “enjoying” the undies any such microbes would be dead.

However there still might be other bacteria-based concerns that you should be aware of. (For example there are many different kinds of bacteria that live in and around the anus that could cause you to become very ill if ingested, but this is another discussion altogether. If you are a panty fetishist I advise you to thoroughly look into these possible health risks).

Well, What Do You Think?

By now you should have a fairly good idea of the underground used-panty market. How do you feel about it? What’s your reaction? Is it an easy way for a woman to make some extra cash, or is it just “gross”?

Tell me, I’d LOVE to know!

**Notes ** I am not affiliated with nor do I endorse any of the online panty shops mentioned in this article. They are included for general reference purposes only.

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