Naughty Saint Nick - Putting the “Ho” back in “Ho, Ho, Ho”!

speaksexy @ December 23, 2009 # One Comment

Ever seen that show Manswers? Not sure I would recommend it per se, but I happened to catch a bit of it the other night and was slightly intrigued by the question “Who is the patron saint of Whores?”
Hm. Never gave that question much thought…BUT it turns out the saint looking out for the well-being […]

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Teaching Masturbation to Teens!

speaksexy @ November 13, 2009 # 9 Comments

Now here’s something you won’t hear about on this side of the Atlantic…A government sponsored program aimed at teaching teens “self-pleasure” techniques!
I think Spain should get the award for Progressive Health Care Nation indeed.
Of course, the religious parties are going boinkers over this - saying such a “touchy” *ahem* topic should be left for parents […]

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Are Self-Made Sex Tapes Self-Destructive?

speaksexy @ November 11, 2009 # 3 Comments

Narcissistic? Maybe. Exhibitionistic? Probably.
But Self-Destructive?!
Umm…that’s going a little far I think.
According to an article published today in US Magazine Online, some sexperts think Hollywood Upity-Ups continue to make sex tapes in the privacy of their own homes (and relationships) because they are self-destructive. Sexually explorative folks are cast in the light of “not being able […]

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I Don’t Need Porn, I Get Real Sex!

speaksexy @ November 14, 2007 # 18 Comments

Recently in my StumbleUpon mailbox I received a very short, and very interesting question from a young man in California wondering how I handle rude people who believe porn users are all “losers” who don’t “get any.” The exact email asked:

“Other stumblers have directed some nasty comments at adult stumblers, saying things like “I don’t need porn, I get real sex.” What would you say to them?”

Every time I read this wonderful question I smile. Why? Because there are so many interconnected social and cultural stereotypes wrapped into those few words that my brain almost explodes with the amount of arguments I could give in response. So before I actually spontaneously combust into flames of indignation, here are a few things I COULD say to “Them.”

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Is Sexual Liberation Destroying Your Libido?

speaksexy @ October 11, 2007 # 2 Comments

Much like our desensitization to violence in the news, we may as a whole, have grown desensitized to nudity and sexually explicit images. In a strange twist of sexual fate, the best way to jump start your libido may be for your partner to start dressing and acting more conservatively.

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Sex-Tech Backlash? Longing for the Good Old Days of Skin-On-Skin

speaksexy @ October 4, 2007 # One Comment

As technology continues to aggressively permeate every aspect our modern-day Western lives, including our closely held sexual expressions, could a sex-tech backlash be just around the corner?

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