Stereotypes…Really? Still?

speaksexy @ May 25, 2007 # 4 Comments

As the title suggests, I’ve been thinking about stereotypes lately, particularly those involving women’s sexuality, and was wondering if they actually still exist in mainstream U.S. culture.
Stereotypes like:
Women Don’t Masturbate.Women Don’t Like Sex.Women Aren’t As Sexual As Men.Women Only Have Anal Sex To Please The Man.Women Who Are Overtly Sexual Are Sluts.Women “Bring On” Rape […]

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Erotic? What’s That?!

speaksexy @ May 20, 2007 # 2 Comments

I came across an interesting blog article called Where is the Real Sex? It’s not on a sex blog per se, but the author brought up a good point, arguing that sex in American pop culture (music, movies, etc.) has lost its erotic appeal. Val concludes, “too many Americans are not afraid of sex […]

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Can Someone Really Love You AND Hit You?

speaksexy @ April 25, 2007 # One Comment

Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of Women
Nelli, one of my favorite fellow bloggers, wrote a post today asking exactly this question. Because I enjoyed her post so very much, I left a rather lengthy comment and thought I’d share it with you. Below is the comment, but be sure to […]

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What Type of Seducer are You?

speaksexy @ March 31, 2007 # No Comment Yet

Here’s a little silly fun for your Saturday…Apparently my seduction style is “Hard to Get.” Hmmm…Figures! Enjoy!

Your Seduction Style: Prized Object

The seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.The one running has the power, […]

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Wanna Play Dr.?

speaksexy @ March 21, 2007 # 2 Comments

When she was threeHer barbies always did it on the first dateNow she’s with me,There’s never any need for them to demonstrate…
Barenaked Ladies - “Life, In a Nutshell” -
In today’s world of high-profile child molestation and sexual abuse cases, one of our most used coping mechanisms as a society seems to be the complete denial […]

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The Allure of Darkness

speaksexy @ March 9, 2007 # No Comment Yet

Sometimes inspiration comes in the strangest of places. As I was exiting the bathroom last night, instead of opening the door and turning off the light as usual, I accidentally turned off the light before opening the door, momentarily plunging myself into utter darkness. I was surprised by an unexpected feeling of delicious apprehension. I […]

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Sexual Force in Women’s Fantasies - Why Do We Have Them?

speaksexy @ February 21, 2007 # One Comment

Considered one of the most controversial topics in sex research today, the prevalence of force in sexual fantasies is both undeniable and unexplained. For a myriad of cultural and societal reasons, research into this topic is scarce and the findings are largely inconclusive. Their are, however, a few prevailing theories as to why people, women […]

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"Good" Sex Values I’ll Never Teach My Daughter - Part I - "Only Have Sex When You Are In Love!"

speaksexy @ February 18, 2007 # One Comment

I don’t like this “L” word. I think it’s confusing, convoluted, and is given way too much importance in Western societies. Love isn’t a feeling or an emotion. It’s a pattern or a way of life that two people who know each other completely and honestly fall into. It’s based on shared values, dreams, memories. […]

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Obsession, Seduction, Possession

speaksexy @ February 5, 2007 # No Comment Yet

If I had to sum up my sexual desires into just one picture, I think this would be it. There’s something about the possessive/tender way he’s holding her, the hungry, almost threatening look in his eyes. She’s given her all to him…and he’s reveling in that power.
Maybe it started at a bar, or in […]

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Come Here…I Want to Smell You!

speaksexy @ January 30, 2007 # No Comment Yet

A hug. A kiss. A cuddle before bed.
Whether you’re conscious of it or not, the way your lover smells plays a large roll in your every day interactions with them. More so than anyone else, your lover is allowed to pass in and out of your invisible personal space barriers almost as if they didn’t […]

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