Sex-Tech Backlash? Longing for the Good Old Days of Skin-On-Skin

speaksexy @ October 4, 2007 # One Comment

As technology continues to aggressively permeate every aspect our modern-day Western lives, including our closely held sexual expressions, could a sex-tech backlash be just around the corner?

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Dirty Talking Porn - Why are Women Always “Sluts,” “Bitches,” or “Whores”?

speaksexy @ October 2, 2007 # 6 Comments

People, women included, who really like porn enjoy it for its down-and-dirty raunchiness. There’s not much in today’s politically correct world that you can get away with, so porn is one thing that fills our deep need to feel like we are “breaking the law…”

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She’s Wet, But is She Turned-On?

speaksexy @ October 1, 2007 # 6 Comments

Many men in long-term committed relationships believe that a wet-woman is a horny woman, and interpret her lubricated-self as a green light to begin sexual activity. Sure, she will probably go along with it to please her partner, but that does not mean she really feels involved in the act. Even more surprising is that it’s possible for many women to have orgasms WITHOUT ever feeling turned-on! That’s why women report higher…

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“Cum On Me Now!”

speaksexy @ September 29, 2007 # 11 Comments

Despite the strong feminist arguments against cum-shots, there are many people who claim cuming on their lover’s various body parts, or having their lover cum on them, has nothing to do with culture, sociology, or gender power struggles - it’s just hot! What do you think?

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Masturbating to your lover’s voice - the high-tech way

speaksexy @ September 27, 2007 # 4 Comments

One of the most exciting parts of having sex is hearing your partner moan, sigh, growl, or talk “dirty” during those few moments of uninhibited abandon. Now wouldn’t it be nice to hear those vibrant and delicious sounds while you were masturbating? By combing a few high-tech gadgets and adding a little creativity, I’ve come up with a way for you to not only hear your lover’s voice - but to feel it!

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How to Shave and Care for Your Favorite Vagina

speaksexy @ September 17, 2007 # 2 Comments

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I remember the first time a man ever asked me to shave my vagina. I was in ninth grade, he was […]

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Are You Waiting to be Seduced?

speaksexy @ September 2, 2007 # No Comment Yet

And then suddenly, out of the garbled faceless crowd, you see their eyes - intent, focused, unflinching. You look behind you. Surely those eyes aren’t meant for YOU. You look back cautiously, and the eyes are still there, just the same. No, a little more hungry now, a little more bold. The person smiles a little, a turning up of their lips, nothing more - but it’s a smile that’s universally recognizable. The one that says, “Yes, I’m looking at you and I think you look delicious.”

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Fingered and Nailed

speaksexy @ July 19, 2007 # No Comment Yet

My gaze became transfixed. I stared at his very long, very straight fingers. I told myself not to stare. Staring was rude…But what would fingers like those feel like sliding over my breasts, circling my nipples into taught sensitive peaks? Would he pinch them hard…

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Does Candlelight and Romantic Music Really Work?

speaksexy @ July 5, 2007 # No Comment Yet

Traditionally when a man wants to get a women into bed, he “romances” her.
He uses scented candles, delicious food, good wine, and saxophone-y background music. He tries to woo her into a state of harmonic bliss wherein his true intentions may go unnoticed…
He waits patiently, knowing there will be a moment when she is […]

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With Penis in Hand

speaksexy @ June 6, 2007 # 2 Comments

Sometimes when my husband and I are going to sleep, I cuddle up behind him, reach around in the classic “spoons” position, slide my hand down his stomach, and take hold of his penis. I don’t do anything with it necessarily. It’s not usually the beginnings of foreplay, or meant to turn him on (though […]

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