Does Your Woman Ejaculate?
Written by Lee Jenkins
When a woman reaches orgasm, she may actually ejaculate. This is especially true for orgasms as a result of G-spot stimulation.
This happens because of the Para-Urethral Glands, which is a female version of a man’s prostate gland.
The fluid the para-urethral glands produce is similar to that produced by the male prostate and, as in the male, passes into the urethra – and in some cases may pass into the vagina. The glands fill with fluid during sexual arousal and may be felt through the vaginal wall.
As it turns out, many people who experience a squirting orgasm think that this liquid is pee, or even vaginal lubrication. But studies of the fluid ejaculated through the urethra have shown a different chemical composition than urine…it’s clear, and if you actually smell it, you’ll find that it doesn’t smell like urine at all! The fluid produce from female ejaculation is odorless.
What If She’s Really Worried That She Might Pee?
Women sometimes will get the feeling that they need to urinate when their G-spot is stimulated. This is perfectly normal; however, the problem comes in when she becomes concerned and self conscious about wetting the bed.
This can drive her in a state of arousal and relaxation, to the point of stress and anxiety. If this happens, she may not be able to have an orgasm at all at this point. If she’s trying hard to hold it in, she’s not focusing on the sexual pleasure you’re giving her.
She needs to be completely relaxed, and be perfectly comfortable if she does happen to ejaculate. If she gets the feeling that she needs to pee, let her know that she can “let it all out”. She won’t be peeing the bed, but it will still be really wet once the ejaculate gushes out.
If she’s still concerned, you can try stimulating her in the bathtub so any fluids that do come out doesn’t soak up the bed.
Female Ejaculation Training
A trick you can use to “train” your partner into become more comfortable with “letting go” is to go with her to the bathroom whenever she’s urinating.
If she hasn’t urinated with you in the same room, she might feel anxious, and have a hard time urinating. Let her get comfortable with you to the point where she can easily pee while you’re there.
Once she releases her PC muscles and starts urinating, reassure her and comfort her.
Associating the encouraging words along with your presence will allow her to feel comfortable enough to let go and urinate. Do this until she’s perfectly comfortable with you being there when she’s urinating.
Now, whenever you’re stimulating her G-spot, say hatever line you used in the bathroom). Because you’ve already trained her to the point where she feels relaxed urinating in your presence while you’re encouraging her, she won’t have the previously held inhibitions, and she’ll end up “letting go” and possibly ejaculating!
Lastly, another way to “train” a woman to ejaculate is by strengthening her pubococcygeus muscles.
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Not a bad article, but “good girl” when we pee.
Seriously, what am I, the fucking dog?
TC – Welcome to S.S! I can see how the “good girl” bit wouldn’t fit in to everyone’s idea of sexy. And if it doesn’t turn you on, then use another phrase that reinforces the behavior..But there are a lot of folks who enjoy that kind of talk.
Hope u r right,because I’m going to try this tonight
ya i’ve read about this, most girls at least from what i’ve heard won’t ejaculate because they are embarrased
Good girl!! Not sure what I would have done if someone would have tried saying that to me – Nevertheless interesting information – I’m gonna be reading more of you
Its really a beautiful thing, but its very important to make her comfortable every step of the way. I guess as men we’re just used to the concept of fluids be projected from the body, but I find that a lot of women don’t think of their own sex in this manner, and so its hard for some of them even if they can ejaculate.
I would love to know more about it ……… I have used it with my wife for more than 5mins. it works …. really……… she is feeling very satiesfied
i like this site, fully valuable articles…
One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, which it will not, they hold back. You see the G-Spot (Skenes Glands) fill up with the female ejaculate fluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee-tube) thus,making it feel like she has to urinate when in actuality she could ejaculate if she simply pushed instead of holding back.
All of this is absolutely true. And believe me it is worth the patience, because it probably won’t happen the first time or event the second or third, but when you feel comfortable then it will come and the moment will live with you forever … unbelievable, joyous memories.
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