You’re sex life was going so well. Your bedroom antics took place at least once a day or at least 5 times a week. You’ve noticed things have tapered down. You’re lucky if you have sex once a week, if that. What could be the problem? Many things.
Don’t automatically think it’s you, or another women. First, try spicing things up. Sometimes relationships require a “boost”. We’re only human and we get bogged down in life. Try on sexy outfits, playfully offer your man a blow job when he’s least expecting it. Little things that add the caliente-ness back into things. If that doesn’t work…have a chat.
Don’t say “We need to talk”, your man will automatically go on the offensive. It conjurs up ultimatums and negativity. It could very well be that stress is a factor. Outside sources tend to drag us down. Find out if this is an issue. Work might be taking it toll. Possibly a family matter. The important thing is to find out where you’re partner is, emotionally. Whatever is on his mind could be taking a toll on his sexdrive.
It is never a good thing to stew in your own doubts. You will, without realizing it, react in ways that might exacerbate the issue. Have a friendly chat and ‘be there’ for your boyfriend. You might learn something you were unaware of. He’ll feel understood and voila. Amazing sex. Sometimes the littlest things can turn your sex life around.