How to Pleasure Your Girl

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I have a pretty good idea what both sexes will say when they read that headline.

For the most part, the boys will say “It’s easy. Insert finger, push – repeat. When she’s enjoying it, go faster until she comes.”

But the ladies will definitely have a different take. “Turn us on first by warming us up. Engage our minds and make us feel sexy.

The sexier we feel the more willing we’ll be (if we’re interested) to let you explore us with your fingers. And all of that before you even touch us.”

The sexier we feel the more willing we’ll be (if we’re interested) to let you explore us with your fingers. And all of that before you even touch us.”

It’s true. As pleasurable as masturbation can be, if she’s not receptive or mentally/emotionally ready, it can be a pretty invasive thing. The art of “warming her up” isn’t about flashing your penis/vagina in her face.

Nor is it telling her about how you want to “do” her. (I swear these days approaches to sex seem so dismissive of mental stimulation on so many levels)

But that’s why we’re here, right? <<big smile>> I’m about to give you some tasty tips on turning her into a very open and willing partner for fingering.

So we know that not all women enjoy “rough sex”. (Big porn myth there!) And since most men swear by porn as a sexual alternative when sex isn’t available, it’s no wonder men come at women like they’re attacking a fortress.

Believe it or not, female genitals are FILLED with nerves and sensitivity (erogenous) zones. Shanna Freeman of “How Stuff Works” says “The clitoris alone has over 8,000 nerves.”

So the slang saying “flick the bean” is really the wrong way to go about it. Instead, gently “loving the bean” will get you so much further.

While you absorb that I’ll give you a very brief anatomy lesson you might not have known about. Ms. Freeman tells us that there are (basically) four nerve groups you could “play with”.

So when a woman orgasms from clit stimulation, it feels differently and with a different intensity then she would if she came from anal sex.  (Aren’t our bodies amazing?!?!)

Now, for those of you who saw the headline and came in looking for directions aren’t going to find them here. Why not? One very simple reason. I don’t know a single thing about your girlfriend. But you do. What may work on some women will not work on every one.

What’s even better…you can start knowing her more intimately after reading this article. Explore her. Kiss her neck and jaw line. Work towards her stomach. (Avoid the obvious places. Make her WANT them touched!)

Now, by this point, if you want to perform oral sex on her instead of fingering her that’s up to you. But the key is not to go right for the obvious. Draw her desires out with light over-the-jeans/underwear touching.

If she wants you to go inside she’ll give you the signs. But let her body tell you, not your lack of patience. (Don’t rush!)

Trust me here. By taking the sensual, teasing and enticing approach you will draw out the erotic tigress within her. Don’t believe me?

Try it out. Prove me wrong (or right!) Then come back and comment. Tell us how it went!

Until next time……

 

 

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