Is It Possible to Schedule Passionate Sex?!

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You know your life has become somewhat corrupted by society’s relentless need to “time-manage” things when it’s 10:05 on a Saturday night and your partner yells:

“Honey, we should’ve been having sex five minutes ago! If we don’t do it soon we’ll have to wait until next week!”

Yet even as bizarre as that yell may seem, many people will read those lines and laugh - not because it’s ridiculous, but because it’s True.

Busy, Busy Little Bees…

In the midst of children, work, and household chores frivolous pleasures like sex and passion understandably slip to the very bottom of your priority list. After all, what’s more important - having an orgasm or sending your children to school in clean clothes the next day?!

Obviously laundry wins, but always catering to the responsible side of yourself doesn’t leave much room for spontaneous romps in the hay - or piles of dirty clothes as the case may be.

So what’s a concerned Guy or Gal to do?

Playful, Playful Little Birds…

Well, you seem to schedule everything else in. Why not schedule in your sex life to?

I know, you’ve heard it all before. Some experts call it “Date Night” others call it “Couple Time”. But regardless of what it’s called people roll their eyes and snort at the suggestion because the whole idea is utterly crazy.

Sex is supposed to be firey, alive, electric. It’s supposed to make your heart beat faster and your blood run hot.

It’s NOT supposed to be contrived, plotted, and calculated to the minute.

“It’s sex, not a space shuttle launch!” ~ (One of my favorite movie quotes ever…Anyone know where it’s from?)

And aside from being totally unnatural, scheduling sex creates a situation that’s just plain weird. Imagine it, both of you standing there at 10:00 pm, staring at each other, waiting for the Sex to start. Ha.

You Know What Desperate Times Call For…

Despite the weirdness and skepticism, it seems many couples are more than willing to give scheduling their orgasmic bliss a shot.

According to a recent Speak Sexy Poll 67% of men and 92% of women admitted to penciling in some time for their love lives.

Apparently most people are desperate enough to try anything that might help reconnect them to their parters - even something as strange as prearranged passion.

But are all the experts who suggest these sorts of things really wrong? Is there a way to set a time and a place for truly satisfying sex?

The Truth About the Birds and the Bees…

The short answer is - YES - IF done correctly.

There is a right and wrong way to approach scheduled sex, and the approach you take makes all the difference.

The key to having successful Sex Time is prolonged foreplay that builds up anticipation for both people.

For example, teasing should start hours before the sex is supposed to happen. This could include simple things like intimate hugs, little stolen kisses, naughty notes left in hidden places, or whispering something hot in your partner’s ear before work. It could also include more involved games, like not allowing your partner to wear panties or tucking an egg vibe into her while she’s doing some other mundane task.

The idea is to make sure you are both thinking sexy, grown-up thoughts long before it’s actually Time. The sexual tension should be killing you! When 10:00 pm finally rolls around you should both be ready to tear the clothes off of each other and sink your teeth right in.

The more effort you put into tantalizing yourself and your partner, the better your sex will be. I know, it sounds like a lot of work, and it is.

But aren’t some things actually worth working for?!

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speaksexy @ March 9, 2008