“Cum On Me Now!”

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It’s become a regular staple of male-oriented pornography – the cum shot. Affectionately known as the “money shot” the image of a man ejaculating on a woman’s body, usually her face or breasts, is one of the most prized among men and despised among women.

The Sociology:

Feminists of all varieties argue that it’s degrading and humiliating to women, and that the male preoccupation with these shots stems from a lack of masculine sexual confidence in a world where women are taking control of their own sexualities as well as their lives. In a very physically visual way, cum-shots allow men to regain the “upper-hand” and to once again put women “in their place” – typically on her knees (powerless) and waiting for the man to orgasm (submissive) while completely ignoring her own sexual pleasure (historically expected).

Making it Even Worse:

As if having one man ejaculate on one woman wasn’t degrading enough, there’s a fetish-like trend of underground Bukkake films. In these films many men ejaculate, either simultaneously or one after the other, on one woman. It’s very much like the more “traditional” (ha!) “gang-bang” scenarios. According to the all-knowing Wikipedia, Bukkake films originated in Japan and quickly found their way into U.S. adult markets where they’ve silently flourished ever since the 1970s.

The Controversy: Some women LIKE it!

Despite the strong feminist arguments against cum-shots, there are many people who claim cuming on their lover’s various body parts, or having their lover cum on them, has nothing to do with culture, sociology, or gender power struggles – it’s just hot!

In the heat of the moment it turns them both on and makes for a very exciting sexual experience. Many pro-feminist men will, in the privacy of their bedrooms, ejaculate on their esteemed female partners (be it a wife, girlfriend, etc.) and will continue to hold them in the highest regard. On the other hand, for some women being able to admit that they enjoy this type of sexual behavior is in itself taking control of their own sexual pleasure. Rather than being degrading, it is empowering!

What Do You Think?

Are cum-shots disgusting and disrespectful to women? Do you enjoy cumming on your lover or having him cum on you? Does the body part make a difference (cumming on the face verses the stomach or back)?

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