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]]> Comment on What would you do? by Catherine http://speaksexy.org/2013/01/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-129576 Catherine Thu, 07 Feb 2013 01:49:50 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=2667#comment-129576 I'd say something along the line of "Slow down. I just wanted to see who you were." And if he kept going, I'd get out of here ASAP. If he backed away and apologised, I might see him again (depending how sincere he sounds), but i'd be a lot more wary. I’d say something along the line of “Slow down. I just wanted to see who you were.” And if he kept going, I’d get out of here ASAP. If he backed away and apologised, I might see him again (depending how sincere he sounds), but i’d be a lot more wary.

]]> Comment on What would you do? by David http://speaksexy.org/2013/01/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-129571 David Sat, 02 Feb 2013 16:26:25 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=2667#comment-129571 I think I'd slap him and walk away, but that is just me, projecting from a wholly different mind set. I think I’d slap him and walk away, but that is just me, projecting from a wholly different mind set.

]]> Comment on Yes, we were there! AVN Awards Gallery 1 by David http://speaksexy.org/2013/01/yes-we-were-there-avn-awards-gallery-1/comment-page-1/#comment-129555 David Thu, 24 Jan 2013 02:15:47 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=2600#comment-129555 I wish I had known you would be in town, always nice to meet other bloggers. David I wish I had known you would be in town, always nice to meet other bloggers.

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]]> Comment on What Would You Do If You Woke Up As the Opposite Sex? by Scott http://speaksexy.org/2012/08/if-you-woke-up-as-the-opposite-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-129503 Scott Tue, 30 Oct 2012 00:11:44 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=1836#comment-129503 This is my ultimate fantasy and fetish - and I'm not alone, there are many websites catering to the fantasy. Despite being happily married, I would love to wake up as a woman. I think I just love the female form so much that I want one of my own. I want to feel the softness of my skin, the silkiness of my hair, to feel the weight of my breasts as I cup them and the delicate caress of lacy lingerie as I slide into stockings and panties. Finally to lay back, submissive and open, as a man fills me for the first time, his hips rocking against mine, my eyes rolling back as I begin to gasp. This is my ultimate fantasy and fetish – and I’m not alone, there are many websites catering to the fantasy.

Despite being happily married, I would love to wake up as a woman. I think I just love the female form so much that I want one of my own.

I want to feel the softness of my skin, the silkiness of my hair, to feel the weight of my breasts as I cup them and the delicate caress of lacy lingerie as I slide into stockings and panties.

Finally to lay back, submissive and open, as a man fills me for the first time, his hips rocking against mine, my eyes rolling back as I begin to gasp.

]]> Comment on You Don’t Bring Me Flowers: How To Get the Spark Back in Your Love Life by speaksexy http://speaksexy.org/2012/10/you-dont-bring-me-flowers-how-to-get-the-spark-back-in-your-love-life/comment-page-1/#comment-129453 speaksexy Tue, 16 Oct 2012 16:25:14 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=2309#comment-129453 Hmmm. Well, this is tough. It sounds as if there is some underlying issue that goes way beyond what these type of gestures could help with. These niceties and conscience efforts would work when both parties haven't lost their positivity, are open to receiving from the other, yet feel neglected, stressed out, or the fiery spark in the bedroom needs stoking. It appears as if a more deeper "conversation" is necessary before any type of <em>gesture</em> could be accepted. I wish you the best of luck. Hmmm. Well, this is tough. It sounds as if there is some underlying issue that goes way beyond what these type of gestures could help with. These niceties and conscience efforts would work when both parties haven’t lost their positivity, are open to receiving from the other, yet feel neglected, stressed out, or the fiery spark in the bedroom needs stoking.

It appears as if a more deeper “conversation” is necessary before any type of gesture could be accepted. I wish you the best of luck.

]]> Comment on You Don’t Bring Me Flowers: How To Get the Spark Back in Your Love Life by Kevin http://speaksexy.org/2012/10/you-dont-bring-me-flowers-how-to-get-the-spark-back-in-your-love-life/comment-page-1/#comment-129450 Kevin Tue, 16 Oct 2012 13:49:51 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=2309#comment-129450 But what if my partner: 1.) Would view spending money on flowers as "wasteful" and just frown on them? 3.) What if she doesn't allow herself time to go anywhere fun? Or perhaps she guilts herself for choosing leisure time over productivity? 5.) I've tried leaving notes. Either she completely misses them or disregards them as efforts put to a relationship she deems "basically effective needing no further effort to improve"? What if, when I ask her what she'd like to do sexually exciting, she looks at me bored and says, "I don't know." I need guidance. The key I used to use for her heart doesn't work. She changed the locks! But what if my partner:
1.) Would view spending money on flowers as “wasteful” and just frown on them?
3.) What if she doesn’t allow herself time to go anywhere fun? Or perhaps she guilts herself for choosing leisure time over productivity?
5.) I’ve tried leaving notes. Either she completely misses them or disregards them as efforts put to a relationship she deems “basically effective needing no further effort to improve”?
What if, when I ask her what she’d like to do sexually exciting, she looks at me bored and says, “I don’t know.”

I need guidance. The key I used to use for her heart doesn’t work. She changed the locks!

]]> Comment on Vogue Hommes Cover Controversy: Violence Towards Women? by Matthias http://speaksexy.org/2012/09/vogue-homme-cover-controversy-violence-towards-women/comment-page-1/#comment-129320 Matthias Mon, 24 Sep 2012 17:35:40 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=2119#comment-129320 *Sigh*. Look at the models' faces. There is no abuse here. Abuse comes in many forms, but this isn't any of them. Go and complain about real abuse and real power imbalance in the real world. Teach kids the difference between make-believe playing (adults do that too!) and real dangerous situations. This image is a great teaching moment for that. If you dare. *Sigh*. Look at the models’ faces. There is no abuse here.
Abuse comes in many forms, but this isn’t any of them.

Go and complain about real abuse and real power imbalance in the real world.
Teach kids the difference between make-believe playing (adults do that too!) and real dangerous situations. This image is a great teaching moment for that.
If you dare.

]]> Comment on All About “Squirting” (Female Ejaculation) by Brian Shelby http://speaksexy.org/2007/12/all-about-squirting-female-ejaculation/comment-page-24/#comment-129282 Brian Shelby Tue, 21 Aug 2012 17:03:12 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/2007/12/08/all-about-squirting-female-ejaculation/#comment-129282 My ex-girlfriend used to ejaculate a fair amount of fluid. I wouldn’t call it squirting in the sense of water coming out of a hose but it definitely wasn’t pee like she thought it was when it first happened during me helping her along with a lot of cunnilingus. I don’t think squirting is something that can be taught but people will sell just about anything online so it doesn’t surprise me that there are courses available for that, too. My ex-girlfriend used to ejaculate a fair amount of fluid. I wouldn’t call it squirting in the sense of water coming out of a hose but it definitely wasn’t pee like she thought it was when it first happened during me helping her along with a lot of cunnilingus.
I don’t think squirting is something that can be taught but people will sell just about anything online so it doesn’t surprise me that there are courses available for that, too.

]]> Comment on Vibrators 101: A Woman’s Guide to Ultimate Pleasure by Penisring http://speaksexy.org/2007/10/vibrators-101-a-womans-guide-to-ultimate-pleasure/comment-page-18/#comment-129228 Penisring Sat, 19 May 2012 04:04:38 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/2007/10/25/vibrators-101-a-womans-guide-to-ultimate-pleasure/#comment-129228 For egg vibrators I recommend a version with a cord. The wireless ones are usually not that strong + they are very expensive. For egg vibrators I recommend a version with a cord. The wireless ones are usually not that strong + they are very expensive.

]]> Comment on Fantasy Lovers – What’s Your Favorite Kind? by calendrier 2012 http://speaksexy.org/2006/12/fantasy-lovers-whats-your-favorite-kind-2/comment-page-16/#comment-129180 calendrier 2012 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 12:25:27 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/2006/12/04/fantasy-lovers-whats-your-favorite-kind-2/#comment-129180 nice article nice article

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]]> Comment on Girl-on-Girl Porn – Guys, I need Your Help! by Sexy Editor http://speaksexy.org/2007/04/girl-on-girl-porn-guys-i-need-your-help/comment-page-1/#comment-123091 Sexy Editor Wed, 12 Oct 2011 13:19:56 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/2007/04/01/girl-on-girl-porn-guys-i-need-your-help/#comment-123091 I've noticed that as well. Unfortunately there is a lot of porn out there and it's primarily written for, acted for and done for men. But don't lose heart! We still have this lovely site: http://goo.gl/zyiym as well as this one: http://www.karaslinks.com/main.html . (And while you're at it...you and I will agree with this very sharp posting here -----> http://www.tinynibbles.com/smartporn) Thank you for your comments!!! I’ve noticed that as well. Unfortunately there is a lot of porn out there and it’s primarily written for, acted for and done for men. But don’t lose heart! We still have this lovely site: http://goo.gl/zyiym as well as this one: http://www.karaslinks.com/main.html .
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Thank you for your comments!!!

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]]> Comment on Girl-on-Girl Porn – Guys, I need Your Help! by kyouku http://speaksexy.org/2007/04/girl-on-girl-porn-guys-i-need-your-help/comment-page-1/#comment-122848 kyouku Fri, 07 Oct 2011 06:54:23 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/2007/04/01/girl-on-girl-porn-guys-i-need-your-help/#comment-122848 even thought many lesbian porn doesn't have a male in the video, it still focuses on the male. first off the "lesbians" in the video are incompetent with sex, they don't do a good job pleasing the other. second, they keep looking at the camera, YOU. of course most viewers are male. third, they usually use phallic objects to get each other off, again they don't do a good job with that. so most lesbian porn are screaming for a male to come in and please them the right way. this is why i don't even bother watching porn, i stick to nude models. Well there is Belladonna at least. even thought many lesbian porn doesn’t have a male in the video, it still focuses on the male. first off the “lesbians” in the video are incompetent with sex, they don’t do a good job pleasing the other. second, they keep looking at the camera, YOU. of course most viewers are male. third, they usually use phallic objects to get each other off, again they don’t do a good job with that. so most lesbian porn are screaming for a male to come in and please them the right way. this is why i don’t even bother watching porn, i stick to nude models. Well there is Belladonna at least.

]]> Comment on 10 Sex Festivals You Really Should Attend by Sexy Editor http://speaksexy.org/2011/08/10-sex-festivals-you-really-should-attend/comment-page-1/#comment-122678 Sexy Editor Fri, 23 Sep 2011 13:59:08 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=1252#comment-122678 Sometimes I wonder if our article writer slips in things to see if anyone is really reading these. But thank you for the correction! I just recently watched a documentary on an event done 4 years ago or so. And it all looked simply amazing. Wait....what kind of sexual experiences? Care to elaborate? We'd love to hear from first-hand experience. Sometimes I wonder if our article writer slips in things to see if anyone is really reading these. But thank you for the correction!
I just recently watched a documentary on an event done 4 years ago or so. And it all looked simply amazing.
Wait….what kind of sexual experiences? Care to elaborate? We’d love to hear from first-hand experience.

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]]> Comment on 10 Sex Festivals You Really Should Attend by Misty Kaye http://speaksexy.org/2011/08/10-sex-festivals-you-really-should-attend/comment-page-1/#comment-122464 Misty Kaye Sat, 17 Sep 2011 18:32:11 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/?p=1252#comment-122464 Burning Man is in Nevada, not Arizona. But yes, while it is primarily an arts festival, and also has a big focus on music, you can have the most amazing sexual experiences there if you are open to it. Burning Man is in Nevada, not Arizona. But yes, while it is primarily an arts festival, and also has a big focus on music, you can have the most amazing sexual experiences there if you are open to it.
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]]> Comment on Where’s the Best Place to Get Wet & Wild? You’ve Decided… by Sexy Editor http://speaksexy.org/2006/12/wheres-the-best-place-to-get-wet-wild-youve-decided/comment-page-31/#comment-122176 Sexy Editor Wed, 14 Sep 2011 15:58:37 +0000 http://speaksexy.org/2006/12/27/wheres-the-best-place-to-get-wet-wild-youve-decided/#comment-122176 I did one better..commented on your latest article! woot. ;) I did one better..commented on your latest article! woot. ;)

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