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Faster Condoms

speaksexy @ June 12, 2007 # 4 Comments

I joined StumbleUpon today and I’ve been addicted to it ever since. I mean ridiculously addicted. Anyway, here’s one of my recent stumbles that I think you might find interesting.
The Pronto Condom
If you go to their website you can see a demo of how to use it. Apparently the act of ripping open a condom […]

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5 Reasons Why Masturbation is Good for Mothers

speaksexy @ May 11, 2007 # 2 Comments

I have to start by thanking Kristofer for pointing out that May has been declared National Masturbation Month since 1995 by the wonderful people over at Good Vibrations. How this has slipped by me is anyone’s guess, so I’m giving you, my dear reader, my not-so-sincerest apologies for having missed this monumental event in the […]

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5 Ways to Get Her On Top

speaksexy @ May 7, 2007 # 5 Comments

Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of Women
For many heterosexual men having their women in the active, or “on top,” position during sex is one of the most physically intense and emotionally gratifying ways to make love. Unfortunately a lot of women are very hesitant to take on this dominant role […]

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In His Clothes

speaksexy @ April 29, 2007 # 4 Comments

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Teddies, Thongs, Garters; I own them all. The purpose of these silky treasures is, of course, to entice my husband. When I want his eyes to light up, I combine thong and skirt. When I want his heart to race, I use the garters. And when I want his […]

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The Myth of Two Orgasms

speaksexy @ April 28, 2007 # One Comment

Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of Women
“Do Women Really Have Two Different Kinds of Orgasms?“
I recently came across this question posted in a sex forum that I frequent and thought it was a topic that could certainly use some clarification!
There is only one kind of orgasm. The only difference is […]

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How to Use Your Penis; Techniques for Large and Small

speaksexy @ March 26, 2007 # 3 Comments

Every morning my email inbox looks like this:
“Don’t be the smallest guy in the room anymore!”
“Try our all natural male enhancers!”
“Pump it up and make her smile!”

Perhaps if I had a penis to begin with that would help. However, since I’m a woman and was conveniently born with a vagina, I find these emails even more intriguing. I know in our collective culture men are often portrayed as having unreasonable obsessions about their relative size, but is it true? Are men really that preoccupied with being bigger than everyone else, and if so, does penis size actually matter to women? Are men’s concerns warranted? And if they are, what can a guy do to please his woman in bed?!

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How to Seduce Your Lover with Compliments

speaksexy @ February 23, 2007 # No Comment Yet

In my life I’ve been lucky enough to be on the receiving end of many compliments. To most I’ve said “thank you,” and then promptly forgotten them. Some I’ve held onto for a while because they’ve made me blush or laugh, but inevitably I’ve forgotten those too. However, I have received a certain few compliments […]

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The Artistry of Erotic Photography at Home

speaksexy @ February 15, 2007 # 2 Comments

If you haven’t already noticed, I am in love with high-quality erotic photography, particularly female nudes. There’s something about the graceful curve of a woman’s breast, hip, or even shoulder that creamily blends together the carnal act of sex itself with the deeper, more profound emotions of making love. Being able to capture this […]

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Intriguing Your Lover…Again

speaksexy @ February 13, 2007 # No Comment Yet

My husband was as a Pirate for Halloween once. It was some of the best sex we’ve ever had.
One of the main reasons sex is so exciting in the beginning of any relationship is because your partner is a new experience for you. Humans not only enjoy, but seek out new experiences all the time. […]

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Have Yourself A Sexy Little Christmas…How To Liven Up Those Holiday Parties!

speaksexy @ December 23, 2006 # 2 Comments

Before you head out for the night, slip a little note into her coat/jacket/pants pocket for her to discover sometime during your night out. This works best if she tends to keep her jacket or coat on during parties. The note should contain only two instructions. The first is for her to go to the bathroom and remove her underwear - assuming she’s wearing any…

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