Help! Does Liking Gay Porn Make Me Gay?!

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Help! Does Liking Gay Porn Make Me Gay?!

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As most of us know, there are a lot of heterosexual men out there who enjoy watching lesbian porn.

Whatever their reasons, many men get turned on when they see two beautiful women kiss, fondle, and dildo each other to orgasmic bliss.

Some men even find lesbian porn more exciting than “regular” straight porn!

But what about women? Do they feel the same way about gay male porn?

Do they get all hot and bothered watching two men caress, suck, and f*** each other? And if they do, what, if anything, does it mean?

The Question:

I’m starting to wonder if something is wrong with me. Lately I’ve noticed that I’m extremely turned on by gay sex. I don’t no how to label myself, (Bi, etc…) because I don’t feel any attraction to females. Is it normal for women to be turned on by watching gay men in the act?

~ Brandy, North Carolina, USA ~

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Am I Gay?

First of all, let’s clear up the unnecessary confusion you are experiencing regarding your sexual orientation – Being turned on by gay male porn does not make you gay, bisexual, or a lesbian.

Unless you, as a woman, are sexually attracted to other women, you are neither homosexual nor bisexual.

You can still consider yourself completely heterosexual regardless of your preference for gay porn.

Think of it this way, no one believes that men who watch lesbian porn are homosexual. As a matter of fact, when heterosexual men admit to not liking lesbian porn, they are often made fun of because they are “supposed” to like it as heterosexual men!

Why would it be any different for a straight women who likes to watch gay men?

Is Something Wrong With Me?

No!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Instead of worrying about “why” you like gay porn or what the deeper meanings and implications are, just go with it.

We all have odd likes, dislikes, and personality quirks. It’s what makes us so interesting. Your enjoyment of gay porn certainly isn’t hurting anyone, so don’t worry about it.

Be happy you’ve discovered something new about yourself that brings you pleasure.

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Do Most Women Like Gay Porn?

Well, honestly I don’t know the answer to that question.

Although men’s interest in lesbian porn is common cultural knowledge (think of all the jokes and pictures associated with it), we don’t hear very much about women who like gay porn.

I’m sure this has a lot to do with the fact that traditionally women have not been the main consumers of porn since most people believed, and many still do believe, that women don’t like porn as much as men. Of course, this isn’t true and more and more adult companies are realizing that their is a big and growing market for women-oriented porn.

Having said that, there’s not much research, scientific or otherwise, that gives any definitive numbers on the percentage of women who get turned on by watching two male lovers.

However, if you look a little deeper into a lot of written erotica that is meant for women, there are a lot of male-on-male scenes…

So even though I can’t tell you if most women get turned on by gay porn, I have a feeling there are many women, just like you, who certainly do get aroused by watching “gay men in the act“!

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It Makes Sense for Straight Women to Like It

As a straight woman, you love men. You adore men. You want to have sex with men. Right?

Then it makes perfect sense that watching not one, but two men engaged in sexual activity would be very exciting to you.

Sure, this isn’t the case for all straight women, but it is a very understandable turn on.

Just ask those lesbian lovin’ heterosexual men – the more women, the better! ;)

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10 Comments

  1. I hear about women who like gay porn all the time. Especially of the Yaoi variety, Japanese male/male animated or drawn porn.

  2. CS – Thanks for pointing that out. When I was writing the article I never even thought about offering links to animated gay porn!

    I wonder if that kind of porn would be more acceptable for women to enjoy than watching real men in videos. Perhaps it would be less taboo and shocking? Hmmm, I’ll have to give it some more thought.

    Thanks so much for commenting! :)

  3. I have experience of women loving to watch me masturbate (I guess the initial novelty of the act turned into something more arousing), so watching two men getting of to each other shouldn’t be far off from that.
    On the side note, Japanese are really into a lot of kinky shit. :D

  4. Hello Rose!!!

    Thanks for thinking of me! Yeah, I’ve been a little (err ;) ) quiet lately… The holidays were very merry and I simply enjoyed the time off. You know, sometimes we all need to relax and just get some leisure time. Doing nothing is a pretty good idea at times. Actually, I wasn’t doing nothing at all, since Valentines’s Day is coming… ;) I was learning how to give a massage, an erotic and genital massage. Hope you’ll like my post on it and even add some ideas, I know you always have some on your sexy mind.

    This post is excellent, as usual. This is kind of delicate topic, so thanks for posting on it. I totally agree with everything you said Rose. For example, I get wet watching some girl-on-girl pics or videos, but sexually I’m not attracted to females. I’m a straight and hot woman who just like the looks. As to watching the gay porn, honestly, I don’t know if I like it or not. Sometimes, I get “fie! ughh!”, sometimes I get “ohh… ahh, that’s hot”. However, I guess that most women do get aroused by gay action.

    Also looking forward to another year of reading your blog!

    PS. You have some super sexy visuals in your latest post on Sugasm 114 :)

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  5. Karrde – No kidding! Watching a man masturbate is a huge turn on for a lot of women – including me.

    It’s true that gay porn seems like a logical extension of that. (LOL about the Japanese. Did you happen to read the Panty Fetish article I wrote a while ago? It seems they are all over that as well. hehe. I doubt they are any more into kinky things than anyone else – their culture just seems to be more open about showing it off rather proudly). ;)

    Nelli – I certainly know what you mean about the need for quiet time! January is just flying by and I still have so much to do!

    Sounds like your year is off to a very “relaxing” start with all that massaging going on. hehe.

    I tend to agree with you about the girl/girl porn too. I’m not a huge fan just because it doesn’t usually do much for me. However, sometimes I think being with another woman might be interesting because we’d both know exactly how everything “works”. lol

    But then I remember how much I like men and that thought quickly goes away!

    Thanks for your kind words, and I look forward to reading your blog too. :)

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  10. im so happy i looked this up cause ive been feeling kinda wierd for watching it…im kinda a FREAK!!but ive always had a wierd fantacy of doin a guy with a strap on(did my ex with a dildo but that was it lol)!!and im totally in love with my man and i go crazy when i eat his culo ha ha ha i miss him!!!hes been locked up 4 over a year now and i am proudly faithful and im guessin i like gay porn cause im just hardcore in the sack(its gotta be big like my papas that goes 4 any porn) and i rarely watch porn but when i do i want it to be hardcore and quick(cause its usually a few min clip haha)anyways im just glad im not the only chick who watches male gay porn once in a while!!THANK YOU!!!

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