Just imagine you’re a man (or maybe you really are a man, just go with it, OK?) and it’s late on a Friday night…You turn down the lights, take off your clothes, and slip between the silky smooth sheets of your bed…In front of you, right there in your bedroom, is a gleaming silver pole…And you wait.
After a few seconds the music starts…It’s deep, hypnotic, and you begin to forget about your stressful week…Then, in your bathroom doorway, a woman appears…It’s your wife…but there’s something different about her tonight, something you can’t put your finger on…
She ignores you as your eyes follow her swaying hips to the pole…She begins to move, her body twisting, back arching…slowly at first…Her eyes are closed, and you feel like you’re intruding on a private world all her own…It’s both voyeuristic and intimate at the same time…
You’re mesmerized as her movements become more open, dynamic, revealing…She presses her belly and thighs against the pole as though it were a lover, tangled and intertwined…Her jumps are gracefully executed, her breasts are displayed for you…just you…
And as the music starts to subside, she wraps her leg high around the metal and spins to the floor, shifts to her final position…She’s kneeling, lit by the glow of her own sensuality…
Finally, she raises her eyes to yours, intensely, hungrily…She is transformed. And for perhaps the very first time, you see the real woman, the powerful, secretive, seductive woman, who allows herself to be called your wife.
Not too shabby for a “quiet” night with the Mrs. is it?
Now, I’m not a very trendy person, but this is something I could really get into! I’m very excited to hear that one of the hottest trends in home fitness and entertainment is Pole Dancing! Not only do I think watching a woman spin and twirl herself around a larger-than-life phallic symbol is incredibly sexy, but the physical/health benefits for the dancers are undeniable.
Unfortunately, the fact that it’s almost exclusively performed in adult-related places by women who are either naked, or close to naked, for the sole purpose of exciting men, seems to detract from the true talent and artistry that’s necessary to do these fantastic moves. Maybe this new pole-dance-at-home trend will help to give these dancers the respect and admiration they deserve.
So, let’s take a moment to explore the delicious ramifications of unleashing your (or your lover’s) innate sensuality…with the help of Mr. Pole. As a woman I can honestly tell you that one of the most powerful sources of self esteem and self worth I have is through my sexuality. I love knowing that if I move my lusciously feminine curves in just the right way, or bend over at just the right angle, I have the ability to captivate a man’s attention, draw him to me, and leave him wanting more.
It’s like a secret weapon, a wonderfully deceptive trick that’s always at my disposal, at all women’s disposal, even if they don’t realize it. Pole dancing, like stripping, exploits this wonderful fact, and learning some moves, even simple ones, can undoubtedly have a huge effect on a woman’s confidence and sex life.
The very idea of giving my lover such an erotic and naughty show does make me nervous, but also exquisitely excited. Both viewer and performer become aroused, and unlike club performers, these private dancers can be touched…and fondled…and fu…Well, you get the idea.
So, if this is something you’re serious about getting into, there are apparently all types of pole options – fixed, semi-fixed, portable. You can take classes, or learn via DVD. And if you really get into it you can even start your own business and go house to house teaching other women how to do it!
Pole Dancing at home! Ha, what a fantastic idea!
PS- I just learned how to put vids on here…So now I can put even more sexy stuff in my posts! (I’m excited, are you?!)